9 Common Myths About Entrepreneurs

There is something about entrepreneurial success stories that makes people uncomfortable. After all, the very notion of working for oneself flies in the face of convention. An example of someone who not only tried an entrepreneurial gig but thrived in it seems to demand explanation.

The question seems to be “How did such an unnatural event occur?” In response, a great number of social and cultural myths have formed around the idea of what it “really” takes to be an entrepreneur. Below are some of the most prevailing myths.

“It Takes Money to Make Money”

This is perhaps the oldest entrepreneur’s myth of all. The first thing out of a naysayer’s mouth when confronted with a successful entrepreneur is “he must have had an inheritance/been rich/etc.” In fact, the world is full of self-made men and women who did not start out with any great deal of money. Many entrepreneurs have started businesses amidst troubling financial circumstances and only prospered monetarily once their companies took off.

“You Need a Great Idea”

Another commonly imagined stumbling block to being an entrepreneur is lack of a “great idea.” Somewhere along the line, “entrepreneurship” became synonymous in the public mind with “new-age” or “unconventional.” But while some entrepreneurs run unorthodox businesses, just as many (and probably far more) succeed in industries that are as old as commerce itself.

The owner of a restaurant, laundromat, or carpentry business is no less an entrepreneur than the founders of the next YouTube nestled in an expensive city loft. Furthermore, a “great idea” is less important than a profitable, proven business model.

“You Need a Business Plan”

Countless would-be entrepreneurs have delayed starting businesses because they did not have a lengthy, formal business plan. It has long been insinuated that “real” businesspeople do not take any kind of action without massive planning in advance. But while there is a grain of truth to this idea, it is not fully accurate, either.

What needs to be firmly understood before committing to a venture is the basic, underlying business model: who are the customers, what do they want, and can you profitably supply it. Beyond that, it is a waste of time to create elaborate plans and forecasts that will likely change later on.

“You Need to be Lucky”

Sometimes, the runaway success of an entrepreneur seems explainable only by luck. “How else could Bill Gates have become the world’s richest man?”, is a frequently asked question. Yet luck is not the essential ingredient to business success that we often believe it to be. Bill Gates, specifically, was the beneficiary of tremendously good luck (in addition to being smart and resourceful.) But scores of less celebrated businesspeople prospered with hard work, drive and intelligence. Most people are best served utilizing these things rather than waiting for their entrepreneurial “ship” to come in.

“You Need Support From Family & Friends”

There are plenty of books and stories about entrepreneurs who were bolstered by moral support from family and friends. Full-fledged endorsements of self-employment are especially common in stories of child or teenage entrepreneurs. This, too, is more the exception than the rule.

It’s easy to give someone a pat on the back once their company has succeeded, but such praise is rarely as forthcoming in the early, unproven days of a fledgling venture. Rather, friends and family are more likely to urge you toward a more proven path involving school or a “guaranteed” career.

“You Need a Type-A Personality”

Without question, vast numbers of entrepreneurs come off as tense, assertive and irritable. Psychologists and psychiatrists describe people who chronically exhibit these behaviors as having “Type-A” personalities. A Type-A personality is not, however, a requirement of working for oneself.

The reason Type-A’s often thrive in entrepreneurial roles is that they tend to be extremely focused, alert and driven. If you can will yourself to embrace the entrepreneurial lifestyle (self-motivation, task management, adherence to external or self-set deadlines), there is nothing to say you cannot also be a relaxed and fun-loving person.

“You Need Perfect Timing”

Some entrepreneurs can honestly say that the timing was right for them to go into business. Perhaps they were young, unmarried and not in debt. Undoubtedly, such circumstances can be more conducive to business success than others. That said, they are hardly a baseline necessity.

In reality, few entrepreneurs are likely to say that the timing was perfect for them. This is especially true as you age, when deciding to open a business usually entails a radical shift in career paths. Even younger businesspeople often find themselves juggling college in tandem with their start ups – far from an easy task, and hardly “perfect timing.”

“You Need to Succeed Immediately”

The most celebrated people in any field tend to be those who succeeded right out of the gate. Michael Jordan, Eddie Van Halen, and (in business) Google are cultural icons largely because of how quickly they established themselves as big-time stars.

Fortunately, there is room in the business world for people who make mistakes en route to succeeding. Winston Churchill famously said that “success consists of going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” Along these lines, many entrepreneurs have prevailed after withstanding repeated false starts.

“Everyone Can Do It”

The flip side of the “entrepreneurs have special abilities or circumstances” myth is the idea that “everyone” is capable of working for themselves. In actuality, not everyone is capable of pulling it off. There are several important differences between entrepreneurship and employment, and some are incapable of making the needed adjustments. If you are the kind of person who cannot get work done without external pressure (like the hounding of a boss), for instance, then self-employment is probably an unrealistic goal.

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How to Start a Business in 10 (not so easy) Steps

Starting a business sucks. It’s not like it used to be, where you make something and put up a sign or place an ad in the Yellow Pages. The legalities associated with “living the dream” have made it a less-than-enjoyable endeavor. Here is a 10-step process by our friends at ContactMe that walks you through the jungle.

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25 Secrets Learned through Failure

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How to Fail: 25 Secrets Learned through Failure

1. Dither, dither, dither; plan, plan, plan.
Instead: Fail fast. Fire, aim, repeat.

Time is the most valuable asset a person has, and yet it’s the easiest and most common thing wasted. Speed breeds momentum and passion, motivation and a bias for action. Learning through experience is far more valuable than learning through planning, prototyping or researching as nothing is more direct, meaningful and visceral than seeing how something works (or doesn’t).

What is the second-most important asset? Passion. People only have so much passion, intellect and interest to devote to ideas without seeing results, without seeing the fruit of their labour. Give people the chance to succeed and the opportunity to learn without drowning them in the process. Few things are more demotivating than working on a project for an extensive amount of time just to see it canceled shortly before it would have seen the light of day.

2. Postpone hard decisions until you have to make hard trade-offs.
Instead: Make decisions earlier to create options and build flexibility.

Make decisions before you think you need to. You’re probably too late if you come to the point where you realize you have to make a choice between hard trade-offs. By waiting to make a decision you’ve created trade-offs instead of options. Postponing decisions in the attempt to optimise your results is probably a waste of your resources in other ways.

3. Copy tactics.
Instead: Create strategies.

Blindly following the tactics and path of other companies is a sure route to failure. The right tactics are indelibly linked to the internal and external environments a company faced at a particular point in time. Companies regularly fail by adopting old business models or basing a business on artificially protecting old business models. Re-applying another company’s tactics neglects to consider the process and path they took to success.

Followers focus on tactics and tools rather than strategies and goals.

4. “Fight the good fight.”
Instead: Pick the right battles, at the right time, with the right people. *

There is a time and a place for everything. Make prudent decisions based on your present and future situation and capabilities rather than fighting every battle that comes your way. The hardest part for every startup is staying in the game, thus do everything you can do to stay in the game give yourself the opportunity for future success.

Implications:

Leave big, systemic, intractable problems to big companies with the resources to get knocked down and get up again. Instead, solve simple problems (big and small) where you can have a direct impact.
Let large companies create standards. Stay away from basing your success on re-creating the wheel for the industry. If your valuable, innovation solutions for your customers are meant to be industry standards, then they will naturally become the standards, but do not depend on systemic change for your success.
Leave large, cross-industry partnerships between incumbents to large, established companies. Startups will almost always be caught between the old battles and priorities of established companies, better to not depend on having to solve their relationships for your success.
5. Solve your problems.
Instead: Solve their problems.

Alternate interpretation: Solve buyers’ problems instead of solving sellers’ problems.

Don’t create solutions that make things easier for you. Create solutions that solve problems for your customers and buyers; they typically don’t care about your own internal problems.

6. Focus on the long-term.
Instead: Focus on the short-term.

You exist in the short-term, you don’t know if you will in the long-term. Make decisions that matter now. In fact, your view of the long-term will probably be wrong; instead, make decisions now that build options that allow you to adjust to the inevitable differences between now and the future.

7. Build prototypes, mockups and samples.
Instead: Start building in a format and medium as close to the finished product as possible, and iterate, iterate, iterate.

Nothing saps the spirit more than creating mockups and designs without making progress toward a completed product. Most often the product cannot be created exactly as it is designed, and thus it is important to learn through working on the product itself, not the design.

Obviously different products require different levels of designing, blueprints and planning; but the focus should always be on the quality of the finished product and not the model.

8. Let data make decisions.
Instead: Use data to guide decisions.

There is always incomplete data whenever you create something new. In a world of incomplete information, data can help you make a decision but it must be treated as a guide to a decision, not the decision. You are more likely to neglect to evaluate an “unknown unknown” than you are to misjudge a “known unknown.” Spend your time wisely on asking the right questions rather than just coming up with the right answers.

9. Give customers everything they want.
Instead: Listen to customers, then throw (almost) all of it away.

Closely related to how to use data: one of the best advantages of a small company is that everyone interacts with customers or can directly see how customers are using their product or service (wait: not everyone does?).

Large companies are forced to split tasks, accountabilities and “strategy” up into small pieces by the very nature of being large. The increased interactions and interlocking tasks creates layers of decision-making and abstracts the tasks away from the impacts they have on customers.

If you are in a position where you cannot directly listen to a customer, talk to a customer or directly see what a customer is doing, then you’re too far away.

10. “New, New, New!”
Instead: F*** new. What’s different? What’s better?

Unless new adds something to the equation, new is not good enough. New is not enough to get people to switch; and if they are switching to you, it’s pretty likely they’ll switch away from you when you’re no longer new.

11. Leave money on the table.
Instead: Raise all the capital you should each time you’re at the trough.

More companies die through lack of capital than any other reason. Capital buys time and creates options; it allows you to stay in the game through the inevitable mistakes, misjudgments and external market shifts out of your control.

The key here is “should.” Raising small amounts of capital to test an idea or to get a quality investor involved or to validate the idea are all good reasons to raise smaller amounts of money; raising smaller amounts of money to optimise the valuation at the next fund-raising round is not a good reason. You’ll spend more money and more time than projected and you’ll be looking at a range of hard trade-offs in your next round of fund-raising.

Cash is king.

12. Optimise for the best-case scenario.
Instead: Build redundancy and plan for the worst-case scenario.

Projects take longer than planned. Production is more expensive than projected. Sales come slower than forecasted. Market conditions change, competitors shift gears.

The only guarantee is that things will change. Depending on the past to predict the future is a bad bet because the risk / reward trade-off is inevitably skewed; things are guaranteed to change, yet the rewards are poorly priced into current risk.

Create solutions for things that don’t change. Create a structure that allows you to stay in the game. Instead of depending on a step-by-step sequential plan, create alternate, parallel paths that allow you to adapt your various workstreams to the changing environment and marketplace.

13. Over-promise, over-sell, under-deliver.
Instead: Over-promise, over-sell, over-deliver.

The vast majority of startups fail because the problems they aim to solve exist for a reason. Aim high and deliver high, and if you can’t do that, then you probably won’t succeed. Justifying mistakes is merely rationalization.

However, “over-delivering” does not equal “doing more”. If you attempt to over-deliver by adding more and more features, more promises, more capabilities, you’re reducing your likelihood of delivering on any of them. Focus on the getting the minimum done exceptionally well.

When in doubt, do less.

14. Be stubborn in the face of failure.
Instead: Be determined in the face of disbelief.

The doubters are inevitable and the odds are stacked against entrepreneurs and startups, thus it is crucial to believe in yourself, your company and your solution. Yet that determination can become our biggest weakness when it manifests itself as stubbornness or inflexibility; we can learn more through failures than successes.

The difference between determination and stubbornness is the difference between ignoring people and ignoring results.

Flexibility is a virtue, not a weakness; error is inevitable, thus accept being wrong and make more mistakes to learn better and faster.

15. “We can build a successful business by capturing just X% of the market.”
Instead: Sell to one customer. Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.

It is impossible for a company or an employee to grasp “the market.” All of your potential customers face slightly different problems and nobody wants to be the “average customer” at the median of the market. Focus your attention and all of your employees on being the best solution for a single customer and grow by winning customer after customer.

By attempting to appeal to everyone, you’ll likely appeal to no one.

Know the difference between the mass market and the niche market and build your entire business on that understanding.

16. Depend on outsiders to make key decisions or develop key components.
Instead: Make your own key decisions and build your own core competitive advantages.

Outsourcing parts of your business is a key way to focus your time and attention on what matters; but be sure to keep your core competitive advantage in-house. The key decisions that affect the future of your business should be made by you and your company.

Consultants, partners and investors will simply make different decisions using their frameworks guided by their incentives and payoff structures, despite all good intentions.

Consultants can be valuable for large companies by exposing them to new ideas and processes and shaking up ingrained ways of doing business, but at a startup nothing is ingrained and creating new ideas and solutions should be the key part of your business. If you need a consultant to make a decision or build a solution for you, you’re making the wrong decisions or building the wrong solutions.

17. “I know more than anyone else.”
Instead: If you think you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re the fool.

If you are indeed the smartest person in the room, then you’ve picked the wrong people to work with. If you’re not the smartest person in the room but think you are, then you’re simply (usually disastrously) wrong.

Hire people smarter than you. Work with people smarter than you. Listen to them. Let them lead you. Take the blame for all failures, give away the credit for all successes.

18. A unanimous decision means we’re all right.
Instead: If everybody agrees, you’re probably all wrong.

Startups face big decisions in areas of uncertainty. If everyone takes the same decision using the same information then you’re probably not structuring the choices appropriately.

Expose yourself to a more diverse set of opinions and interpretations to re-structure the choices. Differences of opinion are warning signs for decisions; use these warning signals to identify the areas where you need to structure more options in your investment decisions. Since nobody really knows the exact path to success, build flexibility and don’t depend on everything to go right for success.

19. Hire resumes.
Instead: Hire people: curiosity, passion, interpersonal skills and drive.

Who would you rather work with: a resume or a person?

Remember that resumes are naturally biased, created and carefully manipulated by job-seekers as marketing devices.

Hire people you want to work with based on the traits, characteristics and behavior you see. It takes more time to hire people rather than resumes, but the risk and downside of hiring a poorly-suited person is higher than the downside of an empty position.

20. Create rules to outline decisions.
Instead: Create incentives to guide decisions.

Incentives align priorities. Rules do not create loyalty or empower employees. Instead of telling people what to do, outline goals and let them lead you to the destination. If you work with people smarter than you (and you probably do), then it’s important to listen and learn from them.

Give up control; you never really had it anyway.

21. Reward activity.
Instead: Reward achievements, both failures and successes.

Failure is an inevitable by-product of an innovative company, thus it’s important to reward people’s failures along with their successes. Ending a project can be as valuable as pushing forward, since misguided activity wastes resources, time and people’s passion.

While process is important, remember that it’s results that count. Academic exercises (efforts that will never be executed) are called “academic” for a reason.

22. Meet to discuss.
Instead: Meet to decide.

Meetings used to disseminate information are the biggest time-sink at almost all companies. Nobody likes meetings and the interruptions they create.

If you are meeting, structure an agenda that leads to a decision being made right then. Use other methods of communication to disseminate information and updates.

If you need meetings to “get everyone on the same page”, then you have bigger problems the meeting will probably not address.

23. Work under “understandings”.
Instead: Create legal agreements as soon as possible.

The process of creating legal agreements is more valuable than the resulting documents themselves. Creating legal agreements forces people to make clear decisions and eliminates the different perceptions and the illusion of agreement that “understandings” invariably create.

24. Everything matters.
Instead: Recognize the difference between “penny-wise” and “pound-foolish”.

Focus on what matters. “Penny-wise and pound-foolish” is a phrase that describes the tendency to focus on small, marginal-value things that we can see to the detriment of focusing more important, valuable but perhaps less-obvious options.

While the phrase is more generally used to describe investment decisions (e.g. spending time on evaluating ways to cut small expenses instead of focusing on larger profit opportunities), it applies to any resource investment: time, money, people, passion, intellect, focus, integrity.

And last but not least,

25. Treat these secrets as absolutes.
Instead: Know all the rules completely so you can break them perfectly.

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Rituals to Keep You Balanced

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Good rituals are essential to our emotional, psychological, and spiritual health. To help reconnect us to the sacred aspects of our lives, we asked three experts on the subject to share everyday rituals that they’ve created or practice.

1. Welcome the Day
Greeting the new day is ingrained in our collective unconscious. Many ancient cultures had some form of morning ritual, and even now most people have a pattern for starting their day, even if it’s coffee from the same cafe. Jane Alexander, author of 20 books on holistic living, including “Spirit of the Home: How to Make Your Home a Sanctuary” built this ritual around the classic yoga Sun Salutation. “I like it because it gives your whole body a vibrant wake-up call,” she says.

Intention To put your mind into a positive frame and prepare your entire body for whatever stresses lie ahead.

Materials
Grapefruit essential oil (or any uplifting aromatherapy oil).

Steps 1. Before getting out of bed, lie quietly for a few moments. Say a word of thanks for this new day, and the gift of life. Dab essential oil on a cloth that you’ll use solely for this ritual, and breathe in the aroma. 2. Get up and stand in front of a mirror. Smile at yourself and affirm that this will be a good day, full of blessings, opportunities, and wonder. Say aloud, “I look forward to a wonderful day,” or any affirmation with personal significance. If there are difficult meetings or decisions ahead, affirm that you will tackle these with ease: “I will take the challenges of this day in stride.”
3. Face east and perform the yoga exercise Sun Salutation.

2. Share the Family Meal
Virtually every culture has a tradition of blessing food, cooking and eating mindfully, and giving thanks for the gift of nourishment, Alexander says.

Intention
To create a setting for nurturing and togetherness.

Materials
Festive table decorations, favorite foods, a candle.

Steps 1. Set a specific day and time for a weekly dinner. Every member of the family, even small children, should be in charge of contributing something — even if it’s just stirring the pot or setting the table. Focus your intention as you chop, mix, and blend. 2. Before eating, light the candle, then hold hands and acknowledge the gifts in your life. Feel free to create a special family blessing. This could take the form of a favorite short poem or saying aloud, “We thank mother earth, the sun, and rain for producing this food, the farmers for growing and harvesting it, and the cook for preparing it.”
3. Eat your meal with mindfulness. Encourage silence as everyone savors the taste and texture of their food. Reflect on the long journey from farm to table, and how lucky you are to be eating such delicious, nourishing food. When the meal is finished, blow out the candle.

3. Appreciation/Gratitude Ritual For our ancestors, gratitude was a way of life, and as a result, every aspect of life presented an occasion for celebration. Offering gratitude is a way to open yourself up to giving and receiving more blessings. Sometimes it takes a simple ceremony to put us in touch with all we do have in our lives. Make this ritual a part of each day, each month, each year — or whenever you feel it’s time to stop and give thanks.

Intention To value and honor those you love, including yourself.

Materials
Cinnamon (essential oil with diffuser, or sticks with bowl of warm water); paper and pen.

Steps
1. Pour a few drops of the cinnamon oil into a diffuser or spray bottle, or crush two cinnamon sticks into a small bowl of warm water. Allow the aroma to permeate your space.

2. Pick up a pen, sit down at your desk, and make a list of all the family members, friends, and pets that matter the most to you. You could even include material things. By writing one or two reasons why each is important to you, you’ll clarify your thoughts and honor the people and things in your life that shouldn’t be taken for granted.

4. Sleep Well Bedtime is a psychically charged time of the day, when we drop our defenses and become vulnerable. This is why most religions have a tradition of bedtime prayers, says Alexander, who drew on various religious practices to create this ritual. “In Kabbalah, it is common to carry out a protection ritual to keep one psychically safe while asleep,” she says. Today, she believes, most insomnia and disturbed nights are caused by overactive minds mulling over the day’s problems. “This ritual is designed to help prevent that.”

Intention
To mark the break from day to night and ease you into a state of physical and mental relaxation.

Materials
Lavender oil, notebook, and writing utensil.

Steps
1. Change (or bathe) with intention. As you take off your clothes, visualize all your daytime anxieties and concerns dropping away. As you wash, imagine that you cleanse away all the negativity of the day. 2. Write down all the positive things that happened during your day.
3. Dab the oil on a handkerchief and place it near the bed. Lie down, breathe in the soothing scent of the oil, and cast your mind back over the day without judgment.

5. Letting Go Aside from death ceremonies (like funerals), we have few traditional rituals to mark the sad endings we experience during the course of our lives. Try this rite, created by shaman and ritualist Donna Henes, author of “The Queen of Myself: Stepping Into Sovereignty in Midlife” and “The Moon Watcher’s Companion.”

Intention
To provide closure.

Materials
Personal mementos, cloth, herbs for smudging.

Steps
1. Gather together symbols that represent a situation that has ended, such as rings, photos, keys, business cards, a uniform, or a hospital bracelet. 2. Hold each item in your hand and note its significance to your growth and wisdom. Bless it with gratitude for all the lessons you have learned.

3. Wrap all these remembrances of things past in a cloth. Keep this package in a prominent place as an affirmation of change. When you are ready, bury it. Plant flower seeds on the grave, light the herbs, and wave them over the site.

Experts
British author and rituals expert Jane Alexander, author of 20 books on holistic living, including “Spirit of the Home: How to Make Your Home a Sanctuary”; shaman and ritualist Donna Henes, author of “The Queen of Myself: Stepping Into Sovereignty in Midlife” and “The Moon Watcher’s Companion”; Interfaith minister Barbara Biziou, author of “The Joy of Everyday Rituals: Spiritual Recipes to Celebrate Milestones, Ease Transitions, and Make Every Day Sacred” and “The Joy of Family Rituals: Recipes for Everyday Living.”

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No More Excuses

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Bethany Hamilton wanted to be a professional surfer. She had a great excuse for letting herself off the hook. At the age of thirteen, Bethany was attacked by a fourteen-foot Tiger shark while surfing off Kauai’s North Shore. The attack left Bethany with a completely severed left arm and every reason to not achieve her goal.

Excuses, even viable excuses, are the reason so many individuals never achieve their potential. However, those who are the most successful are those who have learned to develop a no excuse mentality.

When a person gives an excuse, they reinforce—to themselves and to others—that they don’t have what it takes to reach their goal. They cannot be counted on when the chips are down. It is only when we refuse to offer an excuse that we open our future to growth and improvement.

At one time or another there is a very good reason, a viable excuse, for you to fail. However, if you give yourself permission to only succeed when the conditions are perfect, you will set yourself up for mediocrity. The next time you find yourself on the losing end of success, find the closest mirror, look yourself in the eye and say, “I’m sorry. There is no excuse. I will do better.” Say it to yourself. Say it out loud. Say it and mean it.

Learn to develop the no excuse attitude and watch how your life begins to change for the better. Anxiety, guilt, and stress will be replaced with pride, improvement, and increased success. People will start to respect you more—and you will begin to respect yourself more.

Avoid the trap of excusing sub-par performance, even when you have a good excuse. Learn to find a way to work harder, smarter, or differently so that you can be the one who always finds a way to get it done.

Be like Bethany—set your goals and accomplish them, no matter what.

To see Bethany’s inspiring story check out the video below. You can also check out the film, Soul Surfer, based on Bethany’s story

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Dr. Jason Selk LPC, NCC is the Director of Mental Training for the World Series-winning St. Louis Cardinals, and author of 10-Minute Toughness and the newly released book Executive Toughness, The Mental-Training Program to Increase Your Leadership Performance (McGraw-Hill, Nov 2011).

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